Im real sick man!

My pet peeve is when I tell someone how I feel sick and they try to one up me on how they feel and just cut me off at the chase. Now I know people get sick at the same time but let me tell you that when Im sick I mean like I have a condition as chronic back pain or nerve endings that are burning. What they do to annoy me is blow me off and tell me that theirs is worst then mine and i know they don't have health issues like I do. They just want to take charge of the conversation! For example I have spazms in my legs. They say well gosh you should feel the pain in my knee and I know it hurts alot more then yours does. So stop already !!! I'd like to tell them! Just listen to me and console me at this time. I do not like to be a downer but I am scared and need a friend at this moment and I will listen to you also when I'm needed in your time of pain and hurts.